Effortless flow

If you are looking for tips, tricks and hacks of how to get better results then you need to go deeper. This smell is the sign that you are looking for a way to get your needs met indirectly. ‘How can I make her cum harder, so she will think I’m ALPAHA™’. The unspoken part is ‘so she won’t leave me for someone else’. See how the urge to impress comes from a place of fear and neediness. Another form of nice-guy covert contracts.

See how easy it is for content to exploit your fears? ‘5 tips to dominate her in the bedroom and make her forget the rest!’

Most content is playing off of peoples fear, uncertainty and doubt, as MOST PEOPLE ARE AFRAID AND BARELY CONSCIOUS.

One of the lessons I teach that seems to surprise guys the most, and is at most odds with such mass-consumer targeted quick-hit dating advice to which they are accustomed, is that presence is not forced. What is Zen? The master replied ‘When tired sleep, when hungry eat.’

What [the actual fuck] does this mean?

What if I told you that you can do everything right and still not win. What if there is no winning? What if instead of life being like a battle to win or lose, or a destination that you arrive at by being smart, diligent and working hard, it’s more like a dance.

Is there any point to a dance? Does it make sense to save all your enjoyment of the dance for some future moment? Or to race to the end of the dance?

When you stop forcing, stop worrying, stop living in an ‘I’ll be happy when’ or ‘I’ll be different/complete when’ mode, you will find that the present moment is what there is. All there ever is.

It’s not a puzzle to be solved.

Flowing with the universe, without resistance, playing the games you want to play with people you want to play them with - how could that be anything but the most fun possible? What is there left to worry about?

I get asked a lot, how do I speak to women the way I do, how do I have relationships with women the way I do, what’s the secret to being me. I just am. Perhaps I can help you be you, too.